Tag Archives | stress

"Completely Stressed Out!" (A Guest Blog)

By SoLatina | November 23, 2011 - 4:41 am |
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I’ve been with my husband for eight years, married for a little over two. We both came into this relationship with a children from previous relationships. He has a 4-year-old girl and I have a 6-year-old girl. From day one we’ve had issues with his daughter’s mother. His own family said that she was a troublemaker and would do anything to get us to break up. They were right. She did everything from using his daughter against me to making raunchy … Read more →

“Finding That Lil’ Piece Of Yourself” (Crystal M's Blog)

By SoLatina | November 22, 2011 - 1:57 pm |
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What do you do when everything around just seems to fall apart? Do you fall to your knees and pray…or do you just walk away? I’ve had so many things get tossed my way in life, but I have never had to deal with losing a part of myself. I’ve always been the one to go with the flow and live for the moment. Now, however, I find myself reevaluating my whole life and what it is that I want. For … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Angelica Perez – "I've Changed For My Boyfriend But He Still Treats Me Awful"

By SoLatina | November 4, 2011 - 8:59 am |
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QUESTION: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. I recently moved to his home town with him, leaving everyone I know. I’ve changed myself to be what he wants me to be. He promised to change, too, but still hasn’t. Whenever he gets mad he blames/takes everything out on me. I’m emotionally drained. He also smokes weed all of the time to cope. I am currently expecting a child with him. We’ve been arguing a lot more … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Angelica Perez – "My Life Is Falling Apart. Help!"

By SoLatina | June 28, 2011 - 10:28 pm |
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QUESTION: Hi. I’m 30-years-old and have 4 kids. I lost my job as both an accountant and photo specialist at Walmart a year ago. I then went to college for a few months but failed the spring semester because I couldn’t balance my time with both school and family. I am in deep financial hardship and my bills and rent are past due. I live with my two youngest children’s father and, even though he helps out, it’s still very tough. … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Angelica Perez – "Is It Normal To Be Anxious About Being Pregnant?"

By SoLatina | June 1, 2011 - 3:43 am |
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Psychologist Dr. Angelica Perez – "Is It Normal To Be Anxious About Being Pregnant?"

QUESTION: Is it normal to feel anxious about being pregnant? DR. PEREZ’ ADVICE: Pregnancy and the anticipation of becoming a mother are two miraculous events. But they can also create significant concern and fears in the mother-to-be, and for good reasons. First, becoming a parent is a tremendous responsibility. It is an event that, undeniably, changes our lives in many ways. Aside from the responsibilities of parenthood, the process of pregnancy itself can be scary for some women, especially first-time … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Clara Lora – “How Can I Get Back On My Feet Financially?”

By SoLatina | February 22, 2011 - 5:27 pm |
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QUESTION: I don’t even know how to start but here goes. Today I got into a violent dispute with my husband. It started out as an argument but led into a violent dispute that ended up with cops almost arresting us. And this was all because of money. I’m not writing this because I want to beg for money but rather I’m just simply looking for encouragement. You see, two months ago I felt under the unemployed status before having my children. I was … Read more →

Say WHAT Latina? (Donna’s Blog #5)

By SoLatina | December 10, 2010 - 4:48 pm |
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Say WHAT Latina? (Donna’s Blog #5)

“Don’t Lose Yourself, Mami!” Don’t let the anger control you! In any situation, anger is an easy escape. The controlling of senses fueled by negative energy cannot have a positive outcome. I let my anger get the best of me! I felt rage and anger on every level, and allowed it to cloud my better judgment! I ignored my inner voice…the logic…the reason. I went ape-shit, to say the least, all because of anger…hurt…injured pride. For what? Nothing changed…my life; my … Read more →

Better Than Good Enough (Krystle’s Blog #9)

By SoLatina | December 1, 2010 - 6:34 pm |
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Better Than Good Enough (Krystle’s Blog #9)

Hey everyone! I know it’s been a awhile but I’ve had a very stressful November. I applied to colleges, for scholarships and have been writing various essays for different classes, including my ‘College NOW!’ class. I want to pose the following question: does anyone know of any good tips on how to lose weight (and keep it off)? I used to weigh 200 pounds until I dropped 45 pounds due to daily exercise and dieting. After losing that I felt on … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Clara Lora – Should I Move To Be With The Father Of My Children?

By SoLatina | October 26, 2010 - 1:20 am |
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QUESTION: Hi Dr. Lora. How are you. I wanted to ask you something. Is it normal to forget some things and to have stress from being a single mother of 3 young boys? Also having to get home from work and deal with everything that I have to do and still stay calm? I’m having problems with the father of 2 of my kids. It’s hard because I have thrown him out because of arguments that we have got into. The arguments have been … Read more →

A Common Ground (Kassy’s Blog #1)

By SoLatina | October 20, 2010 - 2:50 am |
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A Common Ground (Kassy’s Blog #1)

So my name is Kassandra but I prefer that people call me Kass or Kassy. I’m a senior in high school and, of course, a Latina :D My mom is from Puerto Rico and my dad from El Salvador. Right now I’m dealing with stress associated with school and colleges and boys (all girls my age do lol). I’m new at this whole blogging thing but am hoping to share my insights on certain things and also hoping to learn more about … Read more →