Tag Archives | exes

“He Swore He Wouldn’t Do It Again” (A Guest Blog From Jen)

By SoLatina | January 3, 2012 - 9:17 pm |
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He swore he wouldn’t do it again and I was naive enough to believe him. It started a month ago when my ex assaulted me at work and I got granted a restraining order. He went to jail for one whole day. The restraining order was broken as soon as he got out. I waited to say anything because it was just texts and everyone said it would be ok. It wasn’t two weeks later that I was sitting on my … Read more →

Is It A Good Idea To Write A Goodbye Letter For Closure? (A Guest Blog From Michelle)

By SoLatina | January 2, 2012 - 10:45 pm |
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Hi ladies. A friend of mine just got dumped by her boyfriend and she’s heartbroken. She said she wanted to write him a goodbye letter so she could get closure. She asked me if I thought it was a good idea. So I really started thinking about it. I have went through 2 breakups myself (a 5 year one and a 2 month one) and I found it was good to write my feelings down on paper. The sad part is, … Read more →

"Disrespected…Yet My Boyfriend Didn't Think So"

By SoLatina | January 1, 2012 - 10:42 pm |
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My boyfriend of 10 months and I just broke up. I keep asking myself if it’s my fault and if I should have handled things differently. I’m very open and sexual, but only with the man I’m involved with. I’m a lady in public and expect to be treated that way by others. My ex is quite a bit older than me. Our backgrounds are very different but we seemed to match up just fine. For instance, I never get drunk … Read more →

"Life After [Or During] A Divorce – Part 1" (A Guest Blog From Fitness Expert Amanda Genao)

By SoLatina | December 21, 2011 - 3:23 pm |
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"Life After [Or During] A Divorce – Part 1" (A Guest Blog From Fitness Expert Amanda Genao)

For those of you familiar with Massachusetts divorce laws you’d happen to know that you are required to take a parenting course in order to be granted a divorce. For those of you not so familiar with this law I welcome you to Massachusetts. It was a freezing evening during the most exhausting and inconvenient of times for me. The class started at 6pm and went till 8:30pm. Eight fu*king thirty. I wasn’t upset, though. I was actually very hopeful and … Read more →

“He Says He Cares For His Daughter’s Mother, But I’m The One He Loves”

By SoLatina | December 7, 2011 - 2:21 pm |
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Okay, here it goes…please be kind! I’ve been dating this guy (he’s 28, I’m 25) for almost 10 months. It’s been going relatively well. We really connect, have a wonderful sex life and many similar interests. He’s a very good person: honest, wonderful father to his daughter, very good to my son (who’s autistic), and makes time for me which says a lot, because he’s a single father and going through a separation. Lately, a lot of my girlfriends have been … Read more →

"My Son Doesn't Want To Go To His Father's Wedding. Yikes!"

By SoLatina | December 4, 2011 - 5:43 am |
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My son is almost 15-years-old and his dad lives in Phoenix. They have a good relationship for the most part. My son’s father and I co-parented and we ended up really good friends after our divorce almost 10 years ago. About 3 years ago my son’s father met this girl. She’s a real nutcase. I’m not going to get too deep into why she is a nutcase..she just is. It has nothing to do with jealousy, as his family thinks she … Read more →

"Completely Stressed Out!" (A Guest Blog)

By SoLatina | November 23, 2011 - 4:41 am |
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I’ve been with my husband for eight years, married for a little over two. We both came into this relationship with a children from previous relationships. He has a 4-year-old girl and I have a 6-year-old girl. From day one we’ve had issues with his daughter’s mother. His own family said that she was a troublemaker and would do anything to get us to break up. They were right. She did everything from using his daughter against me to making raunchy … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Angelica Perez – "My Ex-Husband Played With My Emotions. How Can I Get My Confidence Back?"

By SoLatina | November 13, 2011 - 7:51 am |
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QUESTION: Buenas tardes. Mi pregunta es como puedo obtener mi amor de regreso por mi misma? No puedo entender que es lo que me atada a mi ex esposo, un hombre que no me ama juega con mis emociones destrullo mi confianza, mi amor por mi misma la verdad es una historia larga. Pero lo unico que se es que necesito ayuda emocional. DR. PEREZ’ ADVICE: Hola. ¿Quieres tu decir que no puedes dejar atras la relación que tuviste con un … Read more →

Psychologist Dr. Georgina Ramirez – "I Feel My Boyfriend Is Picking His Friends Over Me"

By SoLatina | November 7, 2011 - 6:47 am |
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QUESTION: I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and we’re planning on getting married. The problem is that he has a couple of friends that I absolutely don’t like. One in particular is his ex. I’ve argued with her over Facebook a couple of times and today it was bad because some of his other friends got involved, too. I’ve asked him (actually begged him) to put a stop to this. I even gave him an ultimatum to pick … Read more →

"Don't Judge Me Because I Cheated On My Boyfriend"

By SoLatina | November 6, 2011 - 3:07 pm |
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Before you judge me, please hear me out. I’ve cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years with my ex-boyfriend. I have cheated on him four times but have never cheated with anyone else besides my ex. I’ve been thinking about why I did this and have come up with the answer that I was unhappy in my relationship during the first 3 “cheats” because my boyfriend and I were not communicating well. We were having difficulty living our lives together. Also, … Read more →