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“No Good Days Without Bad Days” (Crystal R’s Blog)

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Lately things have been going great for my family. My husband got a big promotion and we might finally be able to buy our first home. There is no family drama…everything is good. But just like everything else, there’s ALWAYS bad with the good. In my situation, the bad is both of my doctors. Anyone who has read my blogs knows that I have both mental and physical problems. First off, I have had these huge damn migraines for two months … Read more →

“A Parent’s Worst Nightmare” (Crystal R’s Blog)

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My family and I moved to a bigger house about a month ago, and right away my children made friends with the kids in the neighborhood. My daughter made friends with a little girl across the street and, like a normal parent, her dad came over and introduced himself to my husband and me as we were sitting on the porch. While we were talking, he said he had lived on our street for about two years and wanted to let … Read more →

“A Scary Situation” (Crystal R’s Blog)

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I’ve had a beauty mark on my breast ever since I was a child. Over the last couple of days it was changing color and a few other things. I immediately began to worry because my grandfather had full body cancer before he died and my grandmother had breast cancer. I have 2 children and that’s why I really started to get scared. What if my beauty mark is cancerous? What will happen to my kids? I went to the doctor’s … Read more →

“When Do You Say Enough Is Enough?” (Crystal R’s Blog)

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Today is a happy day for my husband and me. It is our three-year anniversary! Even though today is cause for celebration, there is still a big headache in our life: his mother. We have given this woman chance after chance. In fact, I’ve given her more chances than my husband has because I believe in family and think a parent should be in their child’s life. However, this woman is relentless. She just keeps lying and running her mouth trying … Read more →

“What The Hell Is Going On?!?!” (Crystal R’s Blog)

“What The Hell Is Going On?!?!” (Crystal R’s Blog)

I live in Ohio and just in the past few months there have been numerous child assault cases in Cincinnati; parents locking their children in cages and rooms for years, mothers burning down houses with their babies inside, etc. The thing that really gets me, though, is if it was the father who did it, he would go to jail, which is a great thing. However, if it’s the mother who did it, everyone believes that she MUST be suffering from … Read more →

"Family Values?" (Crystal R's Blog)

"Family Values?" (Crystal R's Blog)

Maybe it’s just me, but I think that family members are supposed to be the LAST people who hurt you. My husband is a wonderful man and a great father, which is pretty amazing considering his family. His mother is terrible. She’s a liar who has stolen from us and, even worse, from our children. She stays on drugs (mainly pills) but does crack, too. The only time she ever wants anything to do with her son (my husband) is if … Read more →

"I Am A Mother!" (Crystal R's Blog)

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I am so sick and tired of people judging who is a mother and who is not. I didn’t know there was such a thing as a perfect parent?! I’m not a perfect parent by any means. However, I AM a mother! I make sure my kids have 3 meals a day, every day. My kids have a roof over their heads, lights to see, and heat to keep them warm. My children have clean clothes on their backs each and … Read more →

“Stop Bitching and Be Grateful!” (Crystal R's Blog)

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Lately it seems like all I’m hearing or reading from people is a bunch of bitching about how they don’t have all the crap that other people do. They wish they had a nice house instead of an apartment. They wish they had a better car. They wish they had a better life, blah, blah, blah. I’m not trying to sound insensitive- I am a very caring person. However, when you’re bitching about the stuff you don’t have instead of being … Read more →

"Disgusted!" (Crystal R's Blog)

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Last year, a now EX friend of mine was caught rubbing on his 14-year-old daughter by a woman in a Sally’s Beauty Supply in Virginia. I am close with his daughter, and even now I still keep in contact with her. She has been going through therapy for the past year and has finally gotten past the situation. The poor girl was really confused and messed up. It broke my heart that I couldn’t be physically there for her, since I … Read more →

“Inconsideration!” (Crystal R's Blog)

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I recently shared a link from SoLatina on Facebook of a battered woman who told her story of abuse. I did it not just because it’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month but for a few other reasons. First, I have personally been in that situation. Secondly, I want everyone to be aware, especially the young girls that I have on my page (like my daughter and my friend’s daughters), of domestic violence. Well, a so-called male friend who I grew up with, … Read more →