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“I Just Want To Snap” (Patrisia’s Blog)

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I’m so mad and disappointed at myself for believing this freaking liar. He painted me such a pretty picture and since I was so friggin’ hopeful, I believed him and fell for it. I must say to all men out there who are not ready to settle down and take on their role as a husband…DON’T ASK A GIRL TO MARRY YOU IF ALL YOU WANNA DO IS PLAY AROUND! Marriage is not a joke. It’s not as easy to call … Read more →

"It's Tough, But I Really Need To Change!" (Patrisia's Blog)

"It's Tough, But I Really Need To Change!" (Patrisia's Blog)

I’ve been a single mother for many years now. Yeah, I’ve had my novios. When I was younger, I also had 2 boyfriends who didn’t provide for my kids, so I still considered myself a single mom. Those relationships didn’t last, of course. After 6 years of being alone, and then dating the same guy for 4 years, we finally tied the knot! It was a lovely, simple wedding ceremony that he paid for all by himself. Even though we’re happy, … Read more →

“Simplemente Nasty!” (Patrisia's Blog)

“Simplemente Nasty!” (Patrisia's Blog)

Hey my fellow Solas! I come to you in simple disbelief of how some women simply don’t value or have self-respect for their bodies. In the situation I’m about to explain, I blame both the girl and a family member of mine. Years ago, she used to be my brother’s girlfriend. They ended up on bad terms (to the point where she feared for her life) and my brother was sent to prison for six months. En esos 6 meses como … Read more →

"An Addiction To Meth" (Patrisia's Blog)

"An Addiction To Meth" (Patrisia's Blog)

Hey my Solas. I found this poem dedicated to Meth and all the true reality it brings to your life. I wanted to share it with you guys! I’m happy to say that, thanks to God, I was able to defeat Meth In August 2005. If you know of anyone who may be battling a Meth addiction, please share this with them. God Bless you all. “METH” I destroy homes, tear families apart, Take your children, and that’s just the start. I’m more costly … Read more →

"Se Pusieron De Acuerdo” (Patrisia's Blog)

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I am filled with many different types of emotions in my life right now. I’m super happy and filled with love but at the same time I am sad, angry and disappointed. My son’s father (whom my son greatly admires) is having a baby and I’m crushed by seeing the effect it’s having on my son (Y cuando digo admired, sadly it’s only by my son). Anyway, my son is 13. He loves spending time with his dad porque his dad … Read more →

“It’s Not Fair!” (Patrisia's Blog)

“It’s Not Fair!” (Patrisia's Blog)

It’s not fair that my two oldest kids have to be the ones wearing hand me downs while their dad is out there rolling in a 454-ss truck with 26’’ rims, Lamborghini doors and Coach interior. He’s a 30-year-old vato who still lives with his mom (1st main reason I left him). He doesn’t like to work and has been unemployed for 3 years (2nd reason I left him). Anyways, he has been with his live-in girlfriend for about 3 years. … Read more →

"True Love?" (Patrisia's Blog)

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I have a question: Dicen Que El Amor Solo Llega Una Vez En La Vida. Do you guys think this is true? I myself totally do. I have dated guys and felt love for some, but my “true love” I let go of when I was 17. This guy and I dated when we were just teenagers, but man, I have not been able to fall in love again the way that I was with this guy. I had my 2 … Read more →

“Daddy, Come Back Soon!” (Patrisia's Blog)

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I know that by the time this blog is posted, Father’s Day will have passed already but I still wanted to write this. As you guys may remember, I wrote a blog a couple of months ago (“No Communication”) where I mentioned that ever since my mom started working and making her own money, everything about my dad started to bug her! She’d sometimes tell me, “I wish he would just leave back to Mexico!” My sisters and I … Read more →

"3rd And Final Part" (Patrisia's Blog)

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Well, after reading all of your feedback on my previous blogs, which included parts one and two of my situation, I sat down and talked to GOD to show me the way. And just to let you know, I’m done with my ex. I told him to have a good life and “GOD BLESS YOU!” I explained that we are in two different worlds and I’m not willing to put up with his drama anymore. So guess what happened: he finally … Read more →

“Too Good To Be True: Part 2” (Patrisia's Blog)

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Before I start, I want to clear one thing up: I am not blaming the teenage girl (see my last blog) and I’m not trying to “clean up” what my ex-fiancée did. I’m simply writing down the situation that I’m living through at this moment in my life. So, back to the story. After all the drama, my ex kept texting me and calling me. But I just couldn’t respond. I didn’t want anything to do with him. He … Read more →