There’s something I need to get off my chest. I’m tired of hearing about all these failed marriages/divorces. If your marriage is salvageable then work at it. Don’t just walk out because it got hard. And definitely don’t jump right back into another one. Take the time to make sure your heart is in it this time around. Marriage won’t fix a failing relationship and neither will a baby. They only bring more problems. You get married when things are great; … Read more →

I’ve noticed more and more people talking about suicide lately. I know with it being harder to find work it’s affecting a lot more people. As much as I hate my job at times, I’m thankful that I have it and get the hours that I do. I’m exhausted and feel tired all the time but I’m glad that I can provide for my family. I understand how much harder it is for people who aren’t working right now. Especially when … Read more →

Hola Sola. I’m back! A friend of mine asked me recently if it’s bad to date a younger man. Personally I don’t think so. However, I wouldn’t date a guy a lot younger than me. I think for me it depends more on the person. How mature they are, how they treat me, etc. Being friends first is a must for me. One of my ex’s was a year younger than me and, in all honesty, it was one of the … Read more →

Hola Sola! Today I’m going to blog about something that hits close to home for me. I’m also asking for advice. I’m not very close to my father’s side of the family, but not by choice. We grew up without my father around because my mom wouldn’t let him see us. In the last few years my brother and I have reconnected with our dad and a lot of our cousins. I sent a letter for my dad (who lives in … Read more →