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Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “Is It Normal To Sweat A LOT & ALL THE TIME During Sex?”

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QUESTION: Hola Dr. Lopez. I have a question about something that’s a little embarrassing for me. Whenever I have sex I start sweating…a lot! No matter if it’s hot or cold in the room, by the end of it I’m usually dripping on the guy. Even if it’s only 5 minutes (a quickie!) I sweat. I’ve never had a complaint but one guy was like, “Wow…you sweat like a guy”. That’s when I became REALLY self-conscious. Is there anything I can … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “I Sweat A Lot ‘Down There’ & I’m Afraid Someone Might Smell The Odor”

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QUESTION: My question is very embarrassing. I don’t even dare ask my own doctor. Is it normal to sweat “down there” and sort of have a smell of armpits? I shave and wash down there but I also sweat a lot down there :( I’m scared someone might smell it when I walk by. I’ve tried talc as deodorant but it doesn’t help. I just don’t know what to do. DESTINY’S ADVICE: Hi. It is normal for women and men to … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “My Boyfriend Started Watching Porn Again & It’s Making Me Feel Jealous & Insecure”

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QUESTION: My husband used to watch a lot of porn back in college but then he stopped when we got together. Just recently he’s been watching it again, though. He tells me that it’s common in men and it has nothing to do with him being bored or unsatisfied with me. He just enjoys how it “helps him out” when I’m not around and can’t “help” him. I’m not sure what to think about it. I’ve watched porn with him before … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “Is It Still Possible For Me To Give My New Boyfriend Genital Warts, Even If I Got Treated For Them?”

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QUESTION: Hi Ms. Lopez. I got genital warts from a guy I had unprotected sex with about 6 months ago. I was treated for them and they disappeared. Now I have a new boyfriend and I haven’t told him that I had them. Is it safe for me to sleep with him? I would DIE(!) if I ever gave him genital warts. Since I can’t see them anymore I assume I can’t give them to him but I want to be … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “What Could A Yellowish Discharge With A Mildly Bad Odor Be?”

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QUESTION: I have a question. For the past 2 months or so I’ve been having a yellowish discharge which sometimes comes with a bad odor. Also, after sex I start getting the same odor which never use to occur. Could this be something serious that I may need to go to a doctor for? Or can it be fixed with over the counter things like the lotions and meds? I don’t have health insurance so I’m hoping you can help with … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “Should I Have My First Child By C-Section Or Vaginal Birth?”

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QUESTION: I am having my first child but I don’t know whether to have it c-section or vaginal. Most women say that vaginal hurts a lot, and that c-sections give you back problems later on. I don’t know which to choose. DESTINY’S ADVICE: Congratulations on your pregnancy. Deciding to have a cesarean section — the delivery of a baby through an incision in the mother’s abdomen and uterus — should be very carefully made with your health care provider. Some doctors … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "I’m Having Trouble Conceiving My First Child…What Can I Do?"

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QUESTION: I’m 24-years-old and my husband and I are ready to start our own family. I’m having trouble conceiving my first child, though. My doctors are not very straight forward with me. They tell me that I’m fine. I have never been on birth control or anything of that nature. I’ve done research on the internet but I don’t fully trust what I read on the web. Do you have any advice or suggestions for me? DESTINY’S ADVICE: Thanks for writing. … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Is Mirena The Type Of Birth Control I Should Be Using?"

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QUESTION: I’m 19-years-old and I just recently became a mom. I don’t want to become pregnant again so I’m going to start birth control, specifically Mirena. Is Mirena what I should be using, since this will be my first time on birth control? I’m kind of scared. DESTINY’S ADVICE: Hi. Congratulations on your new baby! An IUD is a good choice for long-term, highly effective, and very safe birth control after giving birth. It gives a woman plenty of time to … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Why Was There An Odorless White Discharge While I Was Having Sex?"

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Why Was There An Odorless White Discharge While I Was Having Sex?"

QUESTION: Hi. I’m 23 and the other night I had sex for the first time in 2 years. It had been a while! My partner used a condom but when we were having sex, he pulled out one time and we both noticed a white type of cream that was covering most of his condom. We didn’t use lube or anything so I’m not sure where it came from. There wasn’t any odor either. I was kind of embarrassed. Any idea … Read more →

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Can I Get Pregnant From Having Sex While I'm On My Period?"

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QUESTION: Hi. I’m 20-years-old and have been in a committed relationship for 6 months. My boyfriend and I have a very sexually active relationship. We always want to do it. lol My question is: If I’m on my period is it safe to have sex or can I still get pregnant? Or what if I’m just spotting? Thanks! DESTINY’S ADVICE: It is possible for a woman to get pregnant from intercourse during her period, especially if her menstrual cycle is brief. … Read more →